Have you had toxic relationships, or experienced “ghosting” with dates that had initially seemed enjoyable? Maybe you’re online, but you’re only hearing from men you’d never date in a million years. New online dating formats can be puzzling or scary. You are probably busy, tired, and have little free time.

A lot of nice men are cautious about inappropriate approaches, especially in the workplace. We don’t meet each other the way we used to. You’ve begun to think you might need some help.